tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8411036417832928588.post2026334176105081112..comments2023-05-02T04:06:42.770-06:00Comments on Stay At Home Mom Plans: Aren't You a Little Young for That?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8411036417832928588.post-83448276066013999862011-06-16T20:41:54.285-06:002011-06-16T20:41:54.285-06:00So this was a hard one for me......On one hand I f...So this was a hard one for me......On one hand I feel like I am on of those more lenient parents, and then on other.....well, you know. I won't let Mr. J ride his bike by himself 1 1/2 blocks to a friend's house without me or his sister going with him. However, I will let Miss. J go hang out with friends at the pool without adults. I don't think at age 8 I would have been comfortable with Miss J walking to the pool by herself, but at age 11, I would. I think you will be amazed at how fast they mature in just a couple of years.<br /><br />You have to ask yourself, what will make you feel more comfortable with giving them more freedom? Is it a cell phone, karate lessons, or maybe pepper spray and a taser? Now I'm not above arming my kids, but I eventually decided a $10 Tracfone was a good place to start. Just the thought of her having access to that little piece of technology made me feel better about her walking home from the school bus without adult supervision or going to that friend's house that I didn't know so well.<br /><br />It's hard walking that fine line between helping them build their confidence through their experiences and smothering them - but you know your kids better than anyone, and when the time is right, you'll know it.<br /><br />Thanks for a great post. It's good to be reminded that we need to be careful (I've stopped watching the news, it pisses me off).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8411036417832928588.post-72552210353942497182011-06-16T12:49:55.191-06:002011-06-16T12:49:55.191-06:00I totally agree with your thinking. There is a gi...I totally agree with your thinking. There is a girl on our street that is 5 and has been known to wonder around the neighborhood to include riding her bike in the street. She has also walked into other neighbors homes and garages wihtout permission. She just lets herself in if the garage is open or tries to walk into the house. I heard a weird noise one morning and looked out the window to find her yanking on our door trying to come in. She didn't knock or ring the doorbell. It scares me to know that she is allowed to wonder around the neighborhood. At first I thought that soemone was sitting outside watching her but there have been several times I've seen no one. I mean the day they moved in to the neighborhood little man and I were playing with chalk on the front porch and she invited herself over and her parents let her come having never even met me. They didn't even come introduce themselves or come ask if it was ok. That just scares me that she's so young and has that much freedom.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08533281406114888615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8411036417832928588.post-80538287524959079792011-06-16T12:02:00.017-06:002011-06-16T12:02:00.017-06:00Kids are not even aloud at our pool with out some ...Kids are not even aloud at our pool with out some one over the age of 16 ,untill they are 12. Garrett is 15 and I still tell him I have to know the parents before he goes to some ones house. For me 11,12 seemed right to let them ride their bikes to the park (mine is much further away then yours.)and I make them take a cell phone every where they go. and they call me just to check in with out my asking them to. I think it is important to let them know how much you care, that you need to know were they are at all times. I think you will know when she is responsable enough for a little independence.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com